The Parents We Mean To Be: How Well-Intentioned Adults Undermine Children's Moral and Emotional Development pdf epub fb2

The Parents We Mean To Be: How Well-Intentioned Adults Undermine Children's Moral and Emotional Development by Richard Weissbourd pdf epub fb2

The Parents We Mean To Be: How Well-Intentioned Adults Undermine Children's Moral and Emotional Development Author: Richard Weissbourd
Title: The Parents We Mean To Be: How Well-Intentioned Adults Undermine Children's Moral and Emotional Development
ISBN: 0618626174
ISBN13: 978-0618626175
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Pages: 256 pages
Publisher: Houghton Mifflin Harcourt; First Edition edition (March 13, 2009)
Language: English
Category: Health, Fitness & Dieting
Size PDF version: 1912 kb
Size EPUB version: 1626 kb
Subcategory: Psychology & Counseling




Harvard psychologist RichardWeissbourd argues incisively that parents—not peers, not television—are the primary shapers of their children’s moral lives. And yet, it is parents’ lack of self-awareness and confused priorities that are dangerously undermining children’s development.Through the author’s own original field research, including hundreds of rich, revealing conversations with children, parents, teachers, and coaches, a surprising picture emerges.Parents’ intense focus on their children’s happiness is turning many children into self-involved, fragile conformists.The suddenly widespread desire of parents to be closer to their children—a heartening trend in many ways—often undercuts kids’morality.Our fixation with being great parents—and our need for our children to reflect that greatness—can actually make them feel ashamed for failing to measure up. Finally, parents’ interactions with coaches and teachers—and coaches’ and teachers’ interactions with children—are critical arenas for nurturing, or eroding, children’s moral lives.Weissbourd’s ultimately compassionate message—based on compelling new research—is that the intense, crisis-filled, and profoundly joyous process of raising a child can be a powerful force for our own moral development.